Showing posts with label Tennis. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Tennis. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 22, 2016

12 Things You've Never Done

Rodney has created a list of 12 unusual things he's done or had happen to him in his life that most of his readers wouldn't have (at least not all 12).  Read it here on his blog.

This is my list.  I haven't done as many exciting things as Rodney has, but I'm guessing no-one reading this post has done all of them.  Let me know if you've had any of these experiences.

1.  Had a Transient Ischaemic Attack at 19
I was in my third year of uni when I woke during the night with agonising pain in my head.  Worse than a migraine, my head hurt just touching the pillow and it felt like my skull was going to blow apart.  I was so dizzy and I lost feeling in the right side of my face and down my right arm.  I was left with a pins and needles sensation in my face and arm for nearly a week afterwards.  After numerous tests and doctor's visits (including a CT scan to check for a brain tumour), ruled out a number of other possible diagnoses, the doctor decided it must have been a TIA.  My family on my dad's side has a history of stroke; my dad has had many TIAs.  I've never had one since, but I'm mindful that I need to reduce stress as much as possible and get plenty of sleep (haha why did I have kids?).

2.  Played a black cat, a farmer's wife from 1914,  and an old crone with a bucket on her head in some of the plays I've been in.
I'm willing to bet some people reading this have been on stage....but I doubt any would have played these characters.







3. Played tennis against Casey Dellacqua. 
It was 1996. She was 11, I was 13, and she was part of a group of state-level juniors who came down to Albany to play some of the local kids.  We thought we were to be playing against ordinary kids like us.  Talk about a mismatch.

Image from here
4.  Been hospitalised for postnatal depression...twice
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Where I Am and Where I've Been
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5.  Had two short stories published in creative writing magazines
My first was in Brillig (a literary journal of prose and poetry for teenagers, which existed between 1995 and 2000) when I was in Year 10 (1998).  The second was in Sitelines when I was in my first year of uni (2001)....unfortunately the older editions aren't online anymore.  I want to try to get some more published. 

6.  Been diagnosed with Ankylosing Spondylitis
I never thought I'd get arthritis.  Thankfully, I'm feeling pretty good at the moment.
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Life with AS 

7.  Eaten crocodile
Our local butcher stocked some for a while.  It was very expensive, but delicious.  It tastes like a cross between chicken and fish.

8.  Had my photo taken with a giraffe
It was when I was doing a play at the Perth Zoo in 2003.  I wish I had a copy of the photo.  You'll just have to take my word for it.

9.  Made a chicken hat
I've made this hat several times...once for an Easter hat parade when I was in primary school, once for a friend's mad hatter themed birthday, and once for a hat competition at our local agricultural show.
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10.  Made a watermelon bra
Another show competition creation
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11.  Seen The Doctor Blake Mysteries being filmed
It was in Williamstown, while we were on holidays in Melbourne in 2012.
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12.  Written a novel about Aussie Rules football
The big one!  Still working towards publication.

Friday, May 20, 2011

The New Kid on the Block

Chances are many of us have been there at least once in our lives, but, at the moment, I'm feeling like I've done it more in the past few years than I have in the whole rest of my life prior.

The other day I told Duncan that I am completely and utterly over it!

I'm over rocking up at events as the 'new person'.  I'm over the stares.  I'm over feeling like a loser because I don't know anyone and they all know each other.

Welcome to life in a small town, Sarah!

I've realised that before I moved to Buntine in 2008 (aged almost 25), I had not been the new kid very much in my whole life, apart from moving to Albany halfway through the school year in 1988, and being the new person at a few workplaces and at my old church in Perth.  Mostly I've been in situations where everyone is new - primary school, high school, uni.

I've also realised that I focus a lot on the negatives.  I'll go to an event in town where I don't know anyone (such as social tennis or netball training) and I'll dwell on the fact that lots of people did not bother to introduce themselves or introduce me to others, and I'll forget about the handful of lovely, welcoming people who went out of their way for me.  I'm trying to remember to thank God for those people and not get weighed down by the demeanour of those who are less than friendly.

While cities can be lonely places, despite being populous, I think it is harder to make friends in small country towns.  In the city, if you meet a 'difficult' person, usually you can move on and never to see them again, and find people who are friendly and you do have something in common with.  If you're a goth, then there are plenty of goths.  If you're a hippy, then there are plenty of hippies.  Despite the busyness, there are a plethora of groups and clubs around.  You're bound to find a likeminded soul in the city.

But in country towns there are far less people and often a very distinct 'culture'.  Most social events tend to revolve around the footy club and drinking.  If you're not into that scene then it's more difficult to meet the locals and to form strong relationships with them.  A friend of mine told me recently that she would really struggle in a small town because she isn't into footy, netball or hockey.  How are you supposed to meet people if you're not into those sports?

Also, in small towns, there are definitely the 'movers and shakers', the dominant people, those who have been the president of the footy club for thirty years and go on a power trip (not saying everyone is like this, but some definitely are).  If you meet a difficult person, you can't avoid them like you can in the city.  As a newcomer, you have to be very careful about what you say because gossip is rife and some people can make life very difficult for you.  Some people are very proud.  At netball training recently, one of the co-ordinators humiliated me in front of everyone after just my second training session.  She said that I wasn't a good enough player.  I don't object to people's honesty as long it is done helpfully and appropriately (she should have approached me individually, not just say it in front of everyone).  Fortunately a fantastic lady from my team came to my defence.  Normally I would have been more sharp with the co-ordinator, but as the new person, I felt like I didn't have a leg to stand on.

Ultimately it is not the locals who are the best judges of how friendly they are...it's the newcomers.  When you're the new kid on the block, you're ultra-sensitive and aware of how you are being treated - whether people go out of their way to be friendly, or whether they look at you with suspicion and retreat into the safety of their cliques.  In Dally, I used to hear new people being labelled 'blow-ins'.  Well, that really makes me feel like I want to stay long-term....not!  Being the new kid on the block has given me a new zeal to welcome the stranger.  I'm not saying I'm perfect in this area, but when you've experienced the discomfort of being the stranger, you're aware of how others must feel.

And before anyone asks - I do try!  I try to smile and look approachable.  I give more than one word answers to those who ask questions.  I try to be open to those who want to know who we are and where we've come from.  Being an introvert, it is hard, but I do try!

What I was getting at in Big Fish in Small Ponds is that I think it's good for everyone to experience what newcomers go through.  If you stay in one place for too long, there is always the temptation to become too comfortable...to forget to extend a welcoming hand.  If I had not experienced two big moves in less than three years, maybe I would become too comfortable too.

Right now, I'm feeling a bit weary of the whole thing.  I can't wait until I feel like I'm part of the furniture.

Monday, May 02, 2011

Life With AS

In my post The Back Verdict I mentioned that after a blood test and an X-ray, the cause of my chronic lower back pain was revealed to be a form of arthritis called Ankylosing Spondylitis.

This post is to reveal a little bit about how my life has changed since then.  I'm not trying to be a sad sack or a drama queen - many people have far worse types of arthritis!  This is just my story.

Now that I have reliable internet at home, I've been doing a lot more research on the condition.  My doctor (who actually has AS himself) encouraged me to read up on it, but not scare myself with stories of ending up as a hunchback.  The condition is manageable if I take care of myself.  He put me onto a type of anti-inflammatory called Celebrex and told me to do lots and lots of exercise.  So that's what I did.  I took my drugs, I played tennis three times a week, went walking with one of the girls on the farm, and attempted Pilates from a video I bought at an op-shop.  One positive thing that happened was that my tennis ability improved greatly.  Due to more limited movement, I had to make sure my shots were accurate.  I started playing in a pennants competition in Kojonup and ended up with a 6-1 singles record with my only loss being in a tie break.  This has NEVER happened before!  I think my last singles victory was in high school so it has definitely been a long time between drinks!

AS is a genetic form of arthritis.  A professor in the UK made the discovery that 95% of patients with AS have a genetic marker called HLA-B27.  People with the HLA-B27 gene are prone to conditions such as AS, Irritable Bowel Syndrome (which I fortunately don't have) and others.  It doesn't mean that everyone with that gene will develop one or more of those conditions, but we are more prone to it.  AS usually starts in your twenties and usually affects men more than women.  But I was about to discover more...

I was going along pretty well, finally getting uninterrupted sleep at night until Duncan and I went to our friend Rina's 30th.  There we caught up with Duncan's cousin, Liz, and her husband, Chris.  During one of our conversations, I mentioned that I had AS and Chris told me he was also HLA-B27 positive.  He told me he had been managing his pain by following a low starch diet which he had learnt about through this book:


The diet involves cutting out foods high in starch such as pasta, bread, cereals, potatoes and rice (and more).  My initial thought was Thanks, but no thanks.  Adopting a diet devoid of my favourite foods sounded like a descent into some kind of food hell!  Chris very kindly bought me a copy through The Book Depository and arranged for it to be sent to me so I could make up my mind whether it was something worth pursuing.  When the book arrived less than two weeks later, I flicked through it and immediately became very depressed.  I had doubts whether years of taking Celebrex would be very good for my body, but I didn't think I had what it took to adopt a low starch diet for the long haul.  I mean, let's face it - so MANY things contain starch!  I didn't even really know what starch was.  Most people tend to confuse starch only with carbohydrates.  It just happens that many starchy foods are also high in carbohydrates.

I've now been on the low starch diet for over three weeks.  I'm not going to lie...it's hard going!  I went to the doctor and he reckons I have nothing to lose by stopping using my medication and trying the diet.  So far I've been pretty much pain free!  I've come to realise just how starchy my diet actually was. 

Here's an example of my daily diet:

Breakfast - Instead of cereal and toast, I now have fruit and yogurt and occasionally bacon and scrambled eggs or an omelette.

Lunch - Gone are the sandwiches, Cruskits, pasta or rice.  Now I have salad and lunchmeat such as salami, ham or tuna.

Dinner - The book actually contains a lot of very good recipes which I've been trying out.  Basically I can have any kind of meat (as long it has no batter, crumbs or most sauces on it) and vegies.  But it has been a hard slog to say goodbye to sausages, lasagne, spaghetti bolognese, rice....Oh I feel sad just thinking about it :(

In a nutshell I've swapped a diet high in carbohydrates for a diet high in protein.  I can have meat, dairy, fruit, vegetables and eggs.  But I still have to check the packets on everything.  Packet-checking has now become a part of life as has carrying snacks such as dried apples, apricots, sultanas and flaked almonds (whole almonds are disgusting) wherever I go.  I've started cooking my own biscuits and muffins but with almond meal instead of flour.

Explaining why I am on this diet is actually harder than the diet itself!  I will attempt to explain why starch is bad for me in my own words.  Basically, AS is auto-immune.  My white blood cells not only attack foreign objects, they also attack my own body.  The pain often starts following an infection by a bowel microbe called Klebsiella.  Here is a quote from a website I have found to be helpful, KickAS.org

When one eats large amounts of starchy foods (bread, potatoes, cakes and pasta), the Klebsiella bacteria feed on it, multiply and then the immune system of the patient makes antibodies against the microbe and some of those antibodies will also have activity against HLA-B27 and against collagens in the spine and uvea, thereby acting as tissue damaging autoantibodies - hence the need to ABSTAIN from these foods.

Since the mesentery of the bowel is attached to the front of the lumbar spine, it is inevitable that BACKACHE in the lumbar area will be a feature of AS.

Since most people (myself included) don't really have much of a clue about what contains starch, having meals at other people's houses or at cafes/restaurants is proving to be a nightmare!  I really hate putting people out, but I have to take care of my own health.  In hindsight, God was preparing me for this by bringing a number of people into my life who have food allergies or need to adopt particular diets for a variety of reasons.  I have a friend who is vegetarian so I try to cook a vegetarian meal when she comes to visit.  An ex-workmate is a coeliac so I used to buy gluten-free flour and bake cookies with it so she didn't have to miss out on afternoon tea at work meetings.  I know a number of other people who are gluten or lactose intolerant and another friend of mine is on a low amine diet because she gets migraines.  I always tried to be compassionate to these people and they thought I was amazing for thinking of them when cooking.  But, honestly, there's nothing amazing about simply being considerate of others.  Now I find myself in the same boat, I would like the same consideration shown to me.

But it's not easy to get people to understand.  One of the common myths I've had to 'bust' is that I need gluten-free alternatives.  I am NOT a coeliac!  Gluten has no bearing whatsoever on my condition.  The low starch diet is actually a lot worse than being gluten-free!  There are aisles in supermarkets dedicated to gluten-free products.  I can't have any of them because I can't have ANY kinds of cereals - wheat, barley, rye, maize, corn.  I also can't have soy or lentil products.

Some people have looked at me quizically like they think I'm a freak or I'm just trying to be difficult.  Others don't really take the diet seriously and say stuff like, "Oh you can have just a little bit."  They don't understand what it's like to wake up in pain.  But most people have been encouraging when I explain that I'm trialling a diet-controlled method rather than a drug-controlled one.

I'm going to be trialling this diet for at least three months and then see if I can add a few things back.  It's really a process of elimination.

Some days I think the diet is really not that bad.  Believe it or not, I can still have soft drinks, chocolate (as long as it doesn't have caramel or any fillings), some lollies, alcohol and some icecreams.  And I've lost 3kg!

Other days I think of cake, biscuits, Twisties, pasta, rice, bread and I just want to cry, knowing this diet could very well be for the rest of my life.

I keep telling myself to keep my chin up and focus on the positives.

Monday, December 06, 2010

Hit Me With Your Best Shot

It's tennis season up here, but next week will be our last at our current club.  It's a great shame because we love our tennis club - such a friendly environment with great people who are encouraging no matter what your tennis ability.

These photos were taken a few months ago when our friends Craig and Sarah came to visit.

Lovely return, Duncan.



Don't I look pro...haha.


Craig's grandpa serve because of his bad back.

Thursday, October 14, 2010

5 Great Australian Sporting Moments

I'm back from holidays!  Yes, I'm actually typing this post in 'real time'.

One thing we did on our holidays was chill out and watch some of the Commonwealth Games.  In celebration of Australia's dominance in the medal count, I thought I'd share five sporting moments by individuals or teams representing Australia that gave me goosebumps.

1.  Cricket: Michael Bevan hits a four off the final ball to secure a dramatic victory for Australia in a one-day international against the West Indies at the SCG, New Year's Day 1996.



2.  Swimming: Kieren Perkins wins the 1500m freestyle at the 1996 Atlanta Olympics after just scraping into the final and starting as the underdog in lane 8.



3.  Swimming:  The Australian men win the 4x100m freestyle relay at the 2000 Sydney Olympics breaking years of US dominance in this race and after American, Gary Hall Jr said the American team would smash the Australians like guitars.  Who's laughing now, huh?



4.  Pole Vault:  Tatiana Grigorieva comes from nowhere to grab silver at the 2000 Sydney Olympics and gives the American favourite, Stacy Dragila, one heck of a fright.


5.  Tennis: Mark Philippoussis and Jelena Dokic win Australia's first Hopman Cup in 1999.



What are your favourite Australian sporting moments?

Tuesday, January 06, 2009

The Great Sed vs Casey Dellacqua

I usually like playing tennis more than watching it but I'm enjoying watching the Hopman Cup at the moment. Yesterday, I watched Australia lose to Germany which was very disappointing. Iris will probably be pleased though.

I bet you all never knew that I once played Casey Dellacqua in a match!

Seriously, I did. It was in 1996. I was almost 13 and she's a couple of years younger than me. A group of Perth kids came down to Albany to play in a tournament. We all thought they were regular kids like us but it turned out they were junior state champions and Casey Dellacqua was among them. The Albany coaches got really annoyed when they found out because it was really just an ego boost for these kids, coming down and thrashing poor little Albanyites. I suppose there's no point trying to trick you all into thinking I once beat Casey Dellacqua. Ok, it was one sided. Ok, ok, she thrashed me......6-0 (we only played one set, that was enough).

So that's my brush with fame. It's strange that I remember her all these years later. It must be her distinctive surname because when she turned pro, I recognised her straight away. I doubt she remembers me.