Buntine/Dally vs Perth

I've been living in Buntine for more than six months now so that's probably enough time to do a 'review' of how my lifestyle now compares to the one I had in Perth. Remember, this post I did in January when I announced I was moving? Well, I'm going to list many of those categories again and do pros and cons for each....just so you all know a bit more about how my life is now.

House
Pros
We get it rent free and can have as many animals as we like.

Cons
The size. It's a small house compared to my last place in Bibra Lake. There is a lack of cupboards etc and as a result we've had to put a lot of our stuff into storage at Dunc's parents' place.

Location
Pros
We're out in the middle of nowhere which definitely has its advantages. Lots of peace and quiet, space and it certainly puts an end to people just randomly 'dropping in'. No-one in their right mind would drive all the way out here to drop in on us because with the price of petrol it would be costly trip and a waste of time if we were out. Because we're so far out, it also helps with saying 'no' to things and not getting too busy. And when we don't want to go to something, the distance is a perfect excuse ;)

Cons
Our location also has its disadvantages. More petrol is required and the price of it up here is about 20c/litre more than Perth. I'd quite like to be involved in a few things in Dally but I'm not a good night driver and don't want to fall back into bad habits from Perth of getting involved in EVERYTHING.

Shopping
Pros
The thing I like about shopping up here is that everything is in the main street and it takes far less time. This is so much better compared to Perth where I would go to the Carousel to buy two things and end up spending an hour there because there was no parking or long queues or both.

Cons
I'm not used to shopping being a 'social' experience. Here, you can't go down the street without bumping into about half a dozen people you know. I'm used to 'anonymous' shopping where I can go to a big shopping centre and not know a soul. Sometimes I really don't feel like stopping and chatting, however that doesn't mean I want you to ignore me if you see me in the street. It just means I'm not used to it and I still get the 'I'm in a hurry' mentality which is so common of Perth shoppers.

Another downside is there is only one supermarket and because there is no competition, the prices are ridiculous and a lot of the stock is past its use-by date. Disgusting! I always make sure I do a big dry goods shop each time I go to Perth. Also, it's frustrating not having everything at my fingertips like I was used to in Perth. Some things are just not available here.

Eateries
Pros
I enjoy the food from the bakery and the pub and I guess the pros of eating out in Dally is that there isn't much debate about where you'll eat because we're not exactly spoiled for choice.

Cons
The lack of choice is a downside. I miss my fast food! Bring KFC to Dally!

Church
Pros
It's small, it's friendly. The people have been welcoming to me. Can't complain about that side of things. Besides I'm finding out that more and more of them read this blog ;)

Cons
These aren't really cons, more things that I've found hard to adjust to. I've only ever been a member of one other church in my life so its been strange going somewhere else that is so different in many aspects. At my old church, we had singers and more musicians. Here, we just have one pianist and that's it which I find hard sometimes because I'd rather someone lead (since I don't know many of the songs) and makes the congregation sing with more gusto in my experience. Also, I find it strange that people dress up more, sing so many hymns and read from the KJV during the service. Because I went to an evening church, I'm used to rocking up in whatever I was wearing that day. If I had my way, I'd have less hymns with confusing lyrics to make it easier to invite non Christians but church is not all about me....that's just my point of view. For the first time, I'm at a church that actually has people of all ages and they're all related. At my old church there are a lot of people that don't have extended family at the same church and most of the demographic were under 40 and university educated. Here, there are sometimes three generations from the same family at church and most are farmers or married to farmers. Again, not bad things, just different.

Work
Pros
I have work.....that's a good thing. I work with only one other person compared to being in a department of a large library which I was in before. This helps me get to know my workmate better because there's no-one else to talk to. I like that the job is cruisy and that it's part-time and that I get to meet so many people from the community.

Cons
I've had to deal with being on a lower wage than I'm used to and sometimes I miss the big social atmosphere from my old work. Luckily the person I work with is nice because it could have been very unpleasant if she wasn't. Also, working in a shop that sells so many things I like is VERY tempting.

Concerning Duncan's work, I'm finding being married to a farmhand quite strange in some aspects because they work such long hours during busy seasons and I'm used to a 9-5 job. I'm not begrudging about this because I understand that's the nature of his job, I'm just trying to adjust.

Community
Pros
Most people I've met outside church have been very welcoming. It helps that a lot of others are new too and finding their feet. I particularly like the tennis club at Buntine who have been so inclusive and welcoming. It's good being a part of a small community. I think that community is harder to create in Perth because it's such a big, sprawly place....where do the boundaries of each community begin and end?

Cons
Being a newcomer, I often feel like an outsider just because I don't know everyone and it feels like everyone else has known each other for years. I miss my friends in Perth most of all and sometimes I think if I'd moved up here as a single person, I'd find it very hard. And what they say about small towns is true.....gossip is rife and everyone seems to know your business before you even know it yourself.

So there you have it. If I had to choose out of the city and the country, I'd definitely pick country. There's no way I'd ever want my fast paced, stressful city life back again. On the downside, it's the relationships that I built in Perth that I miss the most.

Friday Funny

My friend Rachel sent me this one by sms. I thought it was a hoot! Enjoy!


A priest gets pulled over for speeding. The officer sees an empty bottle of wine on the seat.
"Have you been drinking?" he asks.
The priest assures him it's just water.
"Then why do I smell wine?" the officer inquires.
The priest sniffs the bottle and says, "The Lord be praised! He's done it again!"

Honeymooning With My Honey

Here are the pics from our first and brief honeymoon down south. We spent two nights in Pemberton and one in Donnybrook plus a few at the Pagoda in Perth.

Duncan thought it was lame that the first photo I took was of a chook! hehe

At the Lavender and Berry Farm in Pemberton.

Awwww it's the honeymooners.










Dunc was in his element at the trout fishing place.

Haha it looks like he's taking a leak here. He wasn't by the way.

One fishy.

Two fishies. The staff there cooked them for us and we ate them for lunch.

Beautiful view from Karri Valley Resort where we stayed.

Our little balcony over the water.

Meeting more furry friends.

The road was blocked due a tree needing to be felled. Apparently it was leaning dangerously over the road....or maybe the shire just wanted a new table.

The trees are soooo tall!

I like this pic of us.

We visited the Bicentennial Tree. Haha look at that girl pulling a wedgie out....caught on camera!

Crazy people, including little kids, climbing to the top in thongs.

I got about two metres up.

Tree graffiti.....not cool!

Dunc's reaction to me taking a photo of him driving.

Yeah......it's me!

At Jarrah Jack's Brewery.

The beer I had was disgusting. Can't remember what it was called.

View from the brewery.

At the cider factory in Donnybrook.

From Head to Hand: Characters

Here is the long awaited first post of my series on writing. I thought about calling this series 'Just for Middo' since it was Middo who suggested I do it at the start of the year.......I hope you're reading this Middo! :)

Please note....these are just my views, they are not from a creative writing 'bible'. I did a creative writing major at uni and I learnt heaps about general rules and principles but throughout uni I enjoyed experimenting and breaking those so-called rules.

Here are is what I think is of importance when creating characters:

• Base them on people you know. Seriously those around us provide us with the best inspiration. Even if the character is an animal or a mythical creature, you can still give them personalities of those we know. This prevents the characters being two-dimensional and 'wooden'. I like creating 'hybrid' characters where I will take the body of someone I know and the personality of someone else and combine them to create a character.
• But be careful! Don't make your characters TOO much like someone you know. Would you like reading about yourself in a book, warts and all? You have be careful you don't get sued for portraying someone negatively in a book. Be subtle......don't think just because you've taken someone's character and given them a different name in your book, that the person won't recognise themselves.
• Search the net for questionnaires and surveys and answer them as your character. This helps create 'three-dimensional' characters.
• The good vs evil concept works well with children's books such as Harry Potter and many of Enid Blyton's stories but I think in adult fiction, characters with more substance are required. However, that doesn't mean that the behaviour of an evil character always has to be justified with an excuse.
• Avoid stereotypes e.g. the mad scientist with wild hair wearing a white lab coat. One creative writing tutor I had gave the example of a little old lady with a grey bun and floral dress in a nice little cottage.....who is growing dope in her backyard. Now THAT would be interesting ;)
• Make your characters flawed. No-one can relate to perfect characters, we generally want to read about people with struggles like our own but who can overcome them.
• Send your characters on a journey. This is one of the golden rules I was taught. Don't suddenly and dramatically change the characters' personalities but as they go through the story, they will learn, grow and change.
• Keep a notebook of random scribblings about the characters as you think up things.

In my novel that I'm currently about three quarters of the way through, I used the bodies of celebrities, people I know and my own body; changed little things about them; mixed them with several different personalities including my own, those of people I know and characters from other books and movies. One character in fact is part myself, part Maria from The Sound of Music, part Joan of Arc, part Pollyanna, part Velvet from National Velvet. Hopefully that's an interesting mix. However, many of the other characters are based on real people physically but have made up personalities.

What the gurus say.....

• Bryce Courtenay has admitted that The Power of One is based on his own story of growing up in South Africa. Yet, he's said when the main character, Peekay, begins pursuing his dream to become a champion boxer this was where the similarity to his own life ends. He urges budding writers to make their characters 'larger than life' so that people will want to read about them.
• Marian Keyes writes about characters suffering from low self-esteem just as she did.
• Candace Bushnell admitted the character Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City is her alter-ego.
• Enid Blyton went against the trend by declaring her characters, bar one, are always imaginary by rule and, as a result, they have been criticised for being two-dimensional.

The thing to remember about creative writing is that everyone will have a different opinion to mine and even to the 'experts'. There are recommendations but there is no right and wrong so play around and have fun!

Some of this was based on an assignment I did in third year (2003).

Baby Olivia

Our friends, Corinne and Mick, who were married last year had a baby, Olivia, on the 27th September. They emailed some pics and, as you can see below, she is a real cutie. I had a cuddle a few weeks ago when I was last in Perth.

Out of the seven weddings I went to last year, four of those couples have either had babies this year or are expecting.

And even more crazy.....out of the six weddings we've been to so far this year (which includes our own), two couples have either had babies or are pregnant. In case you were wondering, we were NOT referring to ourselves.

The Pendulum: Christians and Politics

This is my first post in The Pendulum series. So what exactly is The Pendulum about? Well, it's about issues where I'm torn on. I'm not claiming to have a perfectly balanced view but I think these are issues where if the pendulum swings too far to one extreme, there is a problem. I'm hoping to present both views.

Ok, I know every bloggerman and his dog has written something similar to what I'm about to write but I'm going to write it anyway.

In the light of last month's state election in WA, I've been thinking about Christians getting involved in politics. Should we as Christ followers be getting involved? If so, to what extent? Is there a place for Christians as politicians? Should we be actively campaigning against things which are against God's plan and design? Or should we just concentrate on living God's way ourselves and helping the poor etc at a grass roots level?

To be honest, I'm quite torn in this area. I find voting difficult because to put it simply, there are no parties I like! No surprises there I guess as each will have their flaws, yes even the 'Christian' parties. I feel like I'm voting for the best of a bad lot. Sometimes I even feel like writing my own name on the ballot paper and putting a number 1 next to it :).

Politically I guess I could be called centre-right. I'm only moderately interested, perhaps I should take more interest but I find the whole political process quite boring and confusing. Yet I don't want to be uninformed and complain all the time when I have some power as a voter to have my say. I think that's one of the great things about our country. We can vote! And we can vote without men with guns standing over us. However much we may feel our vote doesn't count....it isn't true. Every vote does count and as much as we feel voting is tiresome, many people living under dictatorships would love to be in our position.

Over the last couple of years, other people have persuaded me the importance of researching my vote. In the years before, I used to vote based on hearsay or 'he looks all right.' Now I go to each party's website and read all of their policies. I cannot say how important this is. I disagree emphatically with the political preferences of some Christians but they have researched their vote and come to their conclusion under God. I may have come to a very different view.

I have heard the views of both 'lefty' and 'righty' Christians I know (I hate those labels but I can't think of anything else right now). The lefties are concerned for victims of oppression that aren't mentioned much in the policies of the Christian Democratic Party or Family First....widows, orphans, victims of war, child labourers etc. On the other hand I, like many righties, do not want to support the Greens either and deliberately vote a party into power that is for the legalisation of prostitution and abortion. Neither really appeal to me but I do lean more right than left.

The trouble is...advocates of each view seem to think their issues are the most important and the others still matter but they aren't as passionate about them. Maybe that is a huge generalisation but it seems to fit many people I've talked to or heard their views. I think ALL of these issues are important. There's just no party that's got it right on all of them but we have to vote for someone. You care about child labour? Then also care about the babies that are aborted. All are victims in my opinion.

I can tolerate Christians with differing political views to mine as long as they've researched and prayed about it. It's Christians that vote for a party simply because it has 'Christian' in the title which get my goat. It's people who ask who I voted for and then lecture me which really annoy me. It's Christians who try to persuade their pastors to promote certain parties at church which make me so mad. It's Christians who fill my email with political propaganda who make me seeth with anger. I do not think it's the role of a pastor to try and persuade people to vote for a certain party. The pastor at my old church simply encouraged us to research each party's policy but that was it. We are each responsible for our own vote and it's really no-one else's business. That's why we vote individually in booths where others can't see.

Duncan and I talked quite a bit about the election in the weeks that followed it. He reckons there is a place for Christians in politics for they have an opportunity to witness to other politicians. God has placed us where he wants us to be. So do I think introducing Christian laws will make people Christian? No way! They might change behaviour but they won't change hearts. They won't change people's standing before God. Yet, on the other hand I do worry about society as we have a responsibility to care for others. Some of the laws that could be introduced may just produce more brokenness.

Personally, I just want to concentrate on living for Christ and loving others. If other Christians want to get more actively involved and protest or become politicians that's up to them. God can use us all. Yet I do hope that each Christ follower will take opportunities to explain why they believe what they believe on certain issues in a way that is helpful, loving and God-honouring not just rant and rave and say "It's bad....it's evil."

Image is from countryporch.com

Reception

Finally, here are some reception photos. Yes, I know you're all probably sick of wedding photos by now (judging by the lack of comments) so my next post will be something different, I promise.

We couldn't afford to hire Justine, our photographer, for the reception (which was held at Morley Sport and Recreation Centre) so she came just for the beginning and took a few shots. Here are the photos and more in the album. For heaps of others which our guests took, see my other Facebook albums here, here and here.

Table decorations which my mum made.

Yummy beach theme cake.

Our photoboard which Rianna put together for us.