Thursday, January 26, 2012

When I Don't Desire God

I've put off reviewing any John Piper books for a while for two reasons:
  • These books are already well-known, widely read, and widely reviewed.
  • I've found reading Piper's books to be a bit of a hard slog.
This book was given to me for my 23rd birthday and I read it right through for the first time in 2010.  So if you give me books it shows I will read them eventually ('eventually' being the key word here).  The title was what bumped this book up my reading list since I suspect I am not the only Christian who feels like I don't 'desire God' at times.  We all have times of spiritual dryness and I desperately wanted to see if there was a cure.

The quote I posted yesterday is one of Piper's most well-known ones.  It epitomises his theology - we are here to enjoy and love our Creator.  I really appreciated this reminder of what it means to enjoy God.  The problem is I often feel like I don't.

From the blurb:
For over twenty-five years John Piper has trumpeted the truth that "God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him."  He calls it Christian Hedonism.  The problem is that many people after being persuaded, find that this truth is both liberating and devastating.

It's liberating because it endorses our inborn desire for joy.  And it's devastating because it reveals that we don't desire God the way we should.  What do you do when you discover the good news that God wants you to be content in Him, but then find that you aren't.

One of the main things I got our of this book was that joy is both a gift and a command.  We are commanded to fight for joy, yet God is the only one who can ultimately give us that joy (it is a fruit of the Spirit).  It sounds like a contradiction, but it is really just another example of the mystery of God (like prayer and the Trinity).

Piper goes into the difference between desire and delight, the role of God's Word and prayer in our fight for joy, and there is a very helpful chapter at the end entitled, When the Darkness Does Not Lift.  Despite what it may sound like from the blurb, this book is NOT a guilt trip.

The reason I don't find Piper so easy to read is that he is a bit more theologically 'hardcore' than some other authors and also because he lacks the easy readability and chatty style of authors like John Dickson, whose books I have greatly appreciated.  That doesn't mean that Piper is not worth reading.  He is definitely worth a go, but you have to pick your time i.e. I've found I need to read it when I have the time and space to concentrate well - it's not a book to read when you're tired.  For a long time I've felt like some kind of dummy because I haven't read and quoted Piper like older and more mature Christians I know, but now I realise that's ok.  Piper is helpful, but he is not the only helpful author out there.

I heard a sermon at my church recently about the difference between happiness and joy.  Happiness is circumstancial; a person may feel happy when they are healthy, have friends, have employment etc, but that happiness is not sustained when these things are taken away.  Joy, on the other hand, is not based on circumstances but on what God has done.  I have joy in God because of who He is and what He has done, and this joy remains even when my personal circumstances are poor.  Piper urges his readers to fight for JOY, yet he doesn't seem to think there is a great difference in meaning between happiness and joy:
In this book I will use many words for joy without precise distinctions: happiness, delight, pleasure, contentment, satisfaction, desire, longing, thirsting, passion, etc.  I am aware that all of these words carry different connotations for different readers.  Some people think of happiness as superficial and joy as deep.  Some think of pleasure as physical and delight as aesthetic.  Some think of passion as sexual and longing as personal.  So I signal from the outset that the Bible does not divide its emotional language that way.  The same words (desire, pleasure, happiness, joy, etc) can be positive sometimes and negative sometimes, physical sometimes and spiritual sometimes.  That's the approach I take.  Any of these words can be a godly experience of the heart, and any of them can be a wordly experience of the heart.

Interesting.  I plan to look at joy and happiness more in another post, but would appreciate any thoughts you have on the two words.

This book is worth a read - particularly if you're going through a spiritual dry patch.  But read it slowly.  There's a fair bit to take in.

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Quote of the Day

God is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.
- John Piper

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

2011 Visitors' Honour Roll

We didn't have quite as many people staying at our house last year as we have in previous years.  Mostly this was due to the renovations and the fact that, at times, I really wasn't up to having stacks of guests.  But this year I'm feeling differently.  The house is done and I'm feeling a bit more 'with it'.  So, if you're up for a weekend (or even a few weekdays) on a farm three hours south of Perth, give us a yell.


My parents in February, April and August

Alison in March

Duncan's parents in April

Joel and Sam (and their dog, Sandy) in April (no photo though)

Jill (and Daisy) in July
 
My parents and Neil and Cheryl in October
  
Duncan's cousin-law, Paul, stayed on and off for two weeks in December to help out with harvest.

The Christmas mob.


Monday, January 23, 2012

Girls' Day Out in the Park

There was no better way to spend the last day of 2011 than a picnic lunch in Albany with two of my greatest friends, Emma and Rianna, and Emma's 17 month old daughter, Eleanor.

While we were there I couldn't help but notice how much this park has changed since I was a kid. The wooden forts and climbing frames have gone and all of the new equipment is very 'safe'.

The scariest thing is that I'm no longer playing in the park with my friends...now I'm playing with my friends' kids!

Ready, here I go!


Weeeee!

Soooo cute!


And she's off!

You're never too old for swings.  Never! :)

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Geography Lesson

According to my stats I have readers from all over the world.  I suspect most blogs do.  This does create some dilemmas when it comes to describing Australian places.  If I write as though everyone is from Western Australia it's bound to create some confusion.  If I write as though everyone is from interstate/overseas then WA readers will be going Yeah, yeah...we know that.

So, I've decided to give those interstate and overseas readers a geography lesson.  Please don't see this as patronising.  I really have no idea about towns in different states.

Here's a map I created of WA places I've mentioned before on this blog.  Some of them I've lived in and others I've visited.  Click on the blue placemarks to read a bit about why I have marked that particular place.  To see the whole map, click the view WA Geography Lesson in a larger map link.

Hopefully when I start name-dropping places again, it might make a bit more sense.


View WA Geography Lesson in a larger map

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

No Comment

Last week I discovered that I can no longer leave comments on some Blogspot blogs.  Whenever I click on the comments link, the whole page freezes so I cannot even read any existing comments.  The odd thing is that it only happens on some Blogspot blogs I read regularly...but not all.

Yesterday I did quite a bit of clicking around to see exactly which blogs and posts I could comment on and which ones I couldn't.  Apologies to anyone who has a stats counter and probably thought they had a cyberstalker on their hands!

I can comment on my own blog ok, but now I'm wondering if others are having the same problem?  After doing a bit of Googling, I think the issue may be a bug in Blogger's new threaded comment system.  Apparently there is a compatibility issue with Internet Explorer.  If you use Internet Explorer (which I do), you may not be able to comment on blogs which have threaded comments.

I expect that Blogger will sort this out in time, but for now I want to suggest a temporary fix.  Change from threaded comments back to pop-up or full-page comments.  Just for a while.   That's what is being suggested on the net anyway.  I know it might be easier to suggest blog readers use a different browser, but I'm having trouble with Firefox as well at the moment for different reasons and my download is quite slow.

So...can you comment here?  Leave a test comment if you like.

If not, you're welcome to email me at seddyed at hotmail dot com

Threaded comments do sound cool though...eventually.

Monday, January 16, 2012

5 Best 'Angry Chick' Songs

Duncan doesn't like me listening to this kind of music (he reckons it makes me angry...hmmm).  I think he's way off the mark...it's just great motivational music for exercise or cleaning. :)

Here are my top five:

1.  Since U Been Gone by Kelly Clarkson
2.  Left Outside Alone by Anastacia
3.  You're So Vain by Carly Simon
4.  Predictable by Delta Goodrem
5.  Don't Tell Me by Avril Lavigne

What are yours?