Now that I'm about to become a mum for the second time, hindsight really is a blessing.
I know a bit more of what to expect, and I know the difficult stuff doesn't last forever.
It will pass.
With Rory, I was so terrified that I had to get him into a routine, otherwise he'd develop 'bad habits'. I nearly drove myself mad.
I'm not listening to those people or books this time around.
As hard as having a newborn is, I know the bubba needs me. It's scary coming into a strange new world.